As you discovered yourself inside your grief experience, was it a strange, parallel world? Were there things there that you’d not noticed before the grief experience? Or what kinds of words might you use instead of strange or parallel? Did you discover anything surprising from the people who interacted with you (maybe they were grief support people or funeral home or hospice people)? Was there anything you were discovering in the middle of your grief experience that you wish you’d known prior? Now that you have discovered these things, what do you carry forward in your life to share with others? If you were going to write your own version of: “To lose someone today is to…” what would your write up say?